Should You Call Or Email People?

What should you do when you want to communicate with someone?

Phone calls are widely considered disruptive but email is overloaded, so there's problems using either of them.

I am curious what you prefer both for receiving and reaching out to others.

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Text - If you want an immediate response or a very quick simple message or simple message conversations like "ETA" or "Where you at" "Up for lunch".

Email - Messages that do not need to have an immediate response or messages that tend to be longer or more complex. You also use email if the person does not have texting or know how to text. Another case I use email for is using email like texting if you know that person sits behind a computer all day for work. On a side note, I expect email to be ruturned in a short period of time. I really hate emails returned 1+ weeks later. Some people are notorious for that as that is the way they have always been with email.

Phone - Use only if the message is too complex for words or if it is an emergency/hot button issue. Truthfully, I hate when people leave me a voicemail when I can see I missed a call from them or they could simply text me to call them when I get a chance. I suffer from the 1st world problem of being too lazy to listen to my VM if I know who called. I can probably thank people who drag out conversations for minutes instead of just telling you the main point up front in the VM.

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